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The Best of May 2019

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My break from the blog wasn’t pre-meditated. It was oddly timed because I was going on in my emails (you can subscribe in the side bar) and on Instagram about how I’m more inspired when blogging than on social media lately, but then I just ghosted. I’ve taken a few breaks before, for the holidays or our wedding, and once because I really was uninspired. This time, I just simply didn’t have the time. Between travelling and house guests, hosting two parties this month, and spending much of my free time reading Game of Thrones theories and articles, I just didn’t carve out any time to blog. The only bad part is that I currently have so many ideas for blog posts that I had to push a lot of them back by a few weeks. (And let’s be honest, finishing up my Italy recaps is just daunting.) But I’m back!

So. Let’s get after it with eight of my favourite things from the last month! I love the opportunity to reflect back on the last four weeks in regards to what I’m blogging, what I’m buying, what I’m reading, what I’m listening to, and more. But I’ve also found that it makes me more mindful of what’s bringing me joy as I go through the month.

How We Celebrate Our Anniversaries

I only shared five posts last month, so it wasn’t really surprising that the most popular one was about our anniversary, which I shared just before our wedding anniversary. I wonder if people will note our anniversary next year and in the years to come like they did this year, but in case they do, here’s the answer. (Spoiler Alert: Our real anniversary is in September.)

Foster Kitten

As of last Tuesday, we’re on our second round of fostering for Furbabies Cat Rescue. It’s been a while since we had Jake, so we’re really excited to be back at it. This time, we have a mama and her three kittens. Of all the times I’ve fostered before, I’ve never had the mama with her babies! It’s already so much fun! She’s a total sweetheart and while her babies are still young and squeal like you wouldn’t believe when you pick them up, they’re starting to grow into their little personalities as well. We decided to name the mom Valkyrie and the babies Thor, Loki, and Hela (pictured).

The Boston Globe Gladiator

Gladiator, a podcast about former Patriots tide end and convicted killer Aaron Hernandez, has been sitting in my podcast feed for months, but I finally got around to listening to it this month after I caught up on my current podcasts. I binged it in two days! It was such a fascinating look into his childhood, his football career, his crimes, his time in prison, and the state of his brain at the time of death. If you’re a sports fan, you should definitely listen to it. It gives some really good insight into the underbelly of college and professional sports (of course in the most extreme case, like this one), but serves as a good reminder as to why you shouldn’t idolise athletes just because they’re good at sports. One quote from the sixth episode stands out specifically: “Just because you put pads and a helmet on, doesn’t mean someone has character.”

The Most Harmful Fabrics in Fashion - Jess Ann Kirby

I shared one of Jess Ann Kirby’s posts last month too, but she has seriously been killing it lately. From my following list, she’s the influencer leading the charge to speak up about real issues, like sexual assault (which I shared last month) and sustainability. This post is SO helpful when considering the fabrics we’re purchasing and what sustainable textiles actually look like. Even before this post, I started checking tags to see what material clothes were made from, but this is a great cheat sheet to help you understand what’s on the tag.

Period Movement

The stall doors in the bathrooms at service stations across the UK often advertise for charities that give sanitary products to women and girls across the globe who don’t have access to what they need. It’s made me think a lot about the luxury I’ve had as a woman who has had access to pads and tampons since I got my first period. May 28th was Menstrual Hygiene Day so PERIOD. Movement, based in Oregon, set a goal to raise $28,000 to “distribute menstrual products to people in need around the world, educate to change the conversation around periods, and promote policy change to guarantee access to period products” with the idea that menstrual hygiene is a right, not a luxury.

Balsover Castle

I’m really excited that this month, we decided to join the English Heritage. While my mom was visiting, we stopped at Balsover Castle on our way to see Luke’s parents. We decided to get a 15-month membership, which gives us access to a huge amount of history across England, including Stonehenge! Without a big international trip this year, other than a visit back to Colorado for a wedding, we’re really excited to explore more locally and see some really cool things.

Cookies & Cream Cupcakes

We definitely didn’t do as much cooking this month as either of us would have liked, so I figured I’d share a dessert recipe I recently fell in love with again. For our Game of Thrones Finale Party, I made these cookies & cream cupcakes to be The House of Black and White Cupcakes. I even used the special edition Game of Thrones branded Oreos! Interestingly, the recipe showed up on my Timehop the day of the finale as an eight year old tweet!

World Market Buffet Napkins

One of the biggest sources of waste in our house is paper towels and paper napkins. When it’s just Luke and me at dinner, we usually grab a paper towel each to use as a napkin. I really wanted to cut down on that for both sustainable and financial benefits. So I got up 100% cotton napkins from World Market that we can use on a daily basis, under the one condition that neither of us ever worry about ironing them. It’s a really easy sustainable switch and even though we still buy paper towels, we’ve reduced the amount we buy significantly over the last year.

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The Expat Diaries, Vol. 16

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Holy smokes! How is it even possible that as of today, I’m exactly a month away from being a resident of England for two years. Was that confusing? I’ve lived in the UK for exactly 23 months and I can’t believe it! I’ll never forget the day I moved to England. Luke was in Colorado for my last week. The morning of the move, my mom took us to breakfast and then dropped us off at the airport. We had one easy flight and one flight I would very much like to forget. (I’ll never fly Thomas Cook/Condor ever again.) We landed in Manchester and took the train back to Birmingham, where I moved into the house Luke would be sharing with three other guys for another two weeks or so. I think we had fish & chips for dinner, Luke went out to vote for his local MP, I went to bed, and woke up in the middle of the night, hours before our flight to Berlin for holiday with Luke’s family. It was a crazy week. And as cliche as it is to say it, I still can’t believe this is my life.

I still can’t believe that I like in the United Kingdom. I find it so ironic that years ago, a guy broke up with me, citing a throwaway comment I made once about wanting to temporarily live abroad someday. I remember being so confused as that being his reasoning because I barely remembered saying it. But it was like that idea continued to grow deep down inside me, so when I made the decision to move (rather than Luke being the one to move), it felt right. It felt like something I could handle. It was an exciting new adventure and I felt really at peace with that.

Thanks for indulging my little moment of reflection on the last (almost) two years. Now I’ll get to the last two months, which has included two fairly major life things.

A few months ago, I called a counselling office to book time with a counsellor/therapist. It’s an office set up in town where counsellors basically volunteer their time to meet with patients. You get a block of six weekly appointments, plus an initial evaluation where you just meet with your counsellor and determine if it’s a good fit. Per appointment, t costs £5 if you’re unemployed and £10 if you’re employed. And that’s what I think is truly amazing. I had my sixth (technically seventh) appointment last Thursday. It was really good to be able to talk to someone about all kinds of different things.

I think this second year abroad has been a bit more difficult than the first. I still love living in England and Luke and I are working to put down even more roots, so it’s not like a move back to the States is even on the table for now. (Side note: It always is. It’s always an option for us, but we’ve chosen not to consider it until it begins to feel right. We’re both open to it near or far down the line, but neither of us ever want to put a date on it until we actually need to for logistical reasons because it’s actually happening.) I have a feeling that the difficulty has been more about the personal changes I’ve experienced in recent months and less about living abroad. Maybe just the new city and country further highlight those shifts and changes. Or maybe there’s no more distraction of wedding planning and the fact that I’ve been back to the States twice in my second year and didn’t go back at all during my first. Who knows!

But either way, therapy was good. I’m able to “reapply” in the future since there’s a waiting list, but I’m also kind of welcoming the break and hoping to dig in more with the things that came up for me in those conversations, especially about my anxiety. And by the way, therapy is freaking awesome. You should try it if you haven’t and you shouldn’t ever feel ashamed that you’re in counselling or therapy or whatever you want to call it. You wouldn’t feel ashamed about getting a physical from your doctor, so why feel shame about taking care of your mind?

So about those roots we’re working on. It all kind of hinges on getting a house. If this isn’t your first Expat Diaries, you might know that we’re desperate to get a puppy and a kitten. (Yes, at the same time.) But we’re not able to have pets in the rental we’ve lived in for the last 22 months. (Woah! I can’t believe it’s been that long!) Buying a house has been on our radar for quite some time. We were hoping to buy in early 2019, but then figured we’d wait until after Brexit (at the time planned for March) to see what happened with the market and to get an additional three months of savings. In January, we decided to sign another six-month lease, taking us almost through the end of July, with hopes that we would move from our rental into our own house at the beginning of August, but with a fallback plan to go month-to-month on our lease if needed.

We started looking at houses in March, with an idea of our financials, but without confirming anything. (I’m not sure I would recommend this.) After seeing half a dozen houses, most of which were solid no’s, we finally got in touch with our bank about a mortgage. One afternoon, we sat in bed, Luke on the phone with our bank, to find out if we could be approved for what we wanted.

“Does Hannah have a British passport?” the woman asked while gathering our information.

“No, she has an American passport,” Luke replied. I got up to get it, but it turns out I didn’t need it at all. When I came back into the room, Luke was in the middle of a line of questioning about my residency. What visa do I have? How long have I lived here? It ended with a frustrating conclusion. I’m not eligible to be a part of our mortgage. I’m not on the right visa. I haven’t lived here long enough. Even as Luke’s wife, I can’t get a joint mortgage.

That was obviously not what we wanted to hear and it meant we could only go forward with Luke on the application. Because of that, he didn’t get a yes or a no right away, but later got approved, thank goodness. It would have been so frustrating if we hadn’t been able to buy a house because of my residency and we totally lucked out.

Hopefully I’ll have more information in two months in my next Expat Diaries with where we’re out with the house hunt since we’ll be close to the end of our lease (though we can go month-to-month after our lease is up), so in the meantime, send us first time homebuyers lots of good vibes!

The Best of April 2019

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Let’s get after it with eight of my favourite things from the last month! I love the opportunity to reflect back on the last four weeks in regards to what I’m blogging, what I’m buying, what I’m reading, what I’m listening to, and more. But I’ve also found that it makes me more mindful of what’s bringing me joy as I go through the month.

And now with four posts in a row, I feel like I’ve committed myself to the challenge of somehow incorporating flowers into all twelve posts this year!

Why I'm Done Travelling for Instagram

I got the most amazing feedback on this post from people in real life and people that I’ve been lucky enough to connect with online, particularly through Instagram. Sharing this post felt like a milestone in a long journey to readjust how I approach must of my life, especially travelling.

Kombucha

Our AirBnB host in Edinburgh was amazing and actually gave us part of their SCOBY to start making our own kombucha. When we got home, we ordered the necessary supplies and got started on it as soon as possible. I’ve been following Megan’s Kombucha Tutorial, Part I and Part II on what to do, and I’m currently in the middle of the second fermentation and flavouring.

Pod Save America

Between the NPR Politics Podcast and Pod Save America, I’m basically always up to date with American political news. (Well, those podcasts and Stephen Colbert.) I won’t go into my usual why-you-should-listen-to-Pod-Save-America pitch, but I do want to highlight their 2020 coverage. With basically half the country declaring a run for president, it’s really hard to keep track of who’s who and where all these candidates fall on the policy spectrum. Even though we’re still 18 months away from the election, Pod Save America is putting in work and releasing long interviews (a standalone 60-minute episode, compared to a 15-30 minute interview inside of an episode) with all the candidates. They’re putting them out quickly and the most recent few are piling up in my feed, but thankfully I have plenty of time to catch up before the primaries. They’ve already interviewed Pete Buttigieg, Cory Booker, Julian Castro, Elizabeth Warren, Jay Inslee, Kamala Harris, Kirsten Gillibrand, Seth Moulton, and Tim Ryan. I really encourage you to check out them all, not just your current favourite candidate. See what everyone has to offer!

Sexual Assault Awareness Month: How We Can Support Survivors

Jess Ann Kirby has quickly become one of my favourite bloggers/influencers because she doesn’t shy away from talking about important issues like climate change politics, and sexual assault. Last week, she shared a post titled Sexual Assault Awareness Month: How We Can Support Survivors and I strongly encourage you all to read it and follow it up with more of your own research. As she mentioned in the post, every 92 seconds, an American is sexually assaulted. We have to do something to change stigma around reporting and support the survivors in their quest for healing and justice.

Becoming Michelle Obama

I finally started Becoming this month after being in a bit of a reading slump after finishing You last month. Genuinely, I teared up about three times in just the prologue. It’s easy to see from the first paragraph why this is the best selling memoir of all time. You need to read it if you haven’t already!

Avengers: Endgame

Could it even be a list of my favourite things from April without talking about Avengers: Endgame? Like all MCU fans, I’ve been waiting for this movie to come out for a year. Luke and I booked tickets at the beginning of the month for opening night and made plans to stop at Five Guys before for dinner. I was SO excited, I can’t even tell you. The night before, we watched Avengers: Infinity War as a bit of a refresher and I gotta be honest, after re-watching the last movie, I felt like I wasn’t emotionally prepared. But I absolutely LOVED the movie! I laughed, I cheered, I cried. It was such a great culmination of the storylines we’ve invested in throughout the previous 22 movies and it was awesome to see the original six back together.

Soy and Orange Pork Hello Fresh

We had some friends around for dinner earlier this month and decided to make one of our favourite recipes we’ve tried from Hello Fresh. (And it was a hit!) The soy and orange pork with couscous salad is such a flavourful and filling meal, but it also feels so light and summery. Perfect for dining al fresco in the summertime. When we make it for just the two of us, we make it according to the recipe, except use four pork chops instead of two and are able to divide the couscous salad into four easily. When our friends were over, we added pita with hummus and tzatziki too.

Drops of Youth Liquid Peel - The Body Shop

Oh man, you guys. I’m obsessed with this new product I got last month. I went in to The Body Shop a few weeks ago for mascara and they just happened to be doing a buy two, get one free deal on make up, skincare, and fragrances. I totally fell victim to the deal because I really wanted to try this Liquid Peel after the woman used it on the back of my hand. It’s so crazy how it works and just gently removes dead skin that don’t come off in other steps of my usual skin care routine. I was 100% sold and bought it immediately I’ve been using it 1-2 times a week since and noticed a huge difference. Plus, I used it on my feet one day and it was AMAZING. I seriously need to get back into the habit of weekly feet care. (Are we calling it that? I don’t know.)

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